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Recharged
Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Recharged after a short break. 
2nd trip this year, TPE with le bff, mum, sis and sis friend w sister. 6 females.



Shopping cum sightseeing as apart from BFF, this is our first trip. Enjoying the food and shopping. Definitely will be back for more food and shopping, of course.




Birks were damn cheap, got myself 2 pairs and 1 for le hubby (wrong side thou 😨)

1 bag of clothes for little darling, 1 bag for hubby & 2 for myself 😂

And of course, back with plenty of food.

Sis brought back crazy 100+pcs of face masks =.= 

Our lugguages, overweight. Okay, except for pf. Rest of us exceeded 20kg. Luckily managed to upgrade to 25kg the night before, if not 赔惨了



Fav buy will be last day's special trip to So Sweet. And faith loves it. As well as nougat. 



Faith is almost 8 months now. Growing rapidly in terms of size and brain development. Able to follow the rhythm especially her fav song, if you're happy. Can clap accurately. And she now will demand for people to carry her. If I snook her, tsk tsk... She will pinch my cheeks :( and scream till someone carries her. Practically she wants to be carried because she wants to stand on both legs. Then 顺手 grab our spectacles.
Poor girl fell off the bed yesterday. Of course, got a series of scoldings from dad & mum. can see faith is really scared. Haha okay, priceless. But still heartpain.






Stormy days
Saturday, April 12, 2014
Been experiencing ups and downs all in one recently.. Too much things on my mind, too much 'if's occurring, too many mistakes & misunderstandings. Takes time to resolve.
Hopefully things will get better as days goes by. 

On a side note, Faith has been a good girl. Though she has her cranky times, but all in all, she's easy to handle.
Times flies, she's almost 6 months now.
Started on solid food when she was 4 months+, and she's coping well with spoon feeding. 
Today, her first day on fish diet. Hoping to build up her immune system. Enough of vegetables diet :)
 
She managed to flip 2 weeks ago, aft few months of trying. However, unable to flip back. Haha probably due to her size. 
And she's been growing well, or maybe too well. Chubby little girl. Whereas, her parents were underweight.

Mirror image of her daddy. Everyone sees me and her and said "wow look like daddy hor" despite not meeting her daddy. Because, she doesn't even look like me :(

Loud girl. Teachers in school loves her so much. Easy to handle. Can just leave her on her throne or mattress, and she can entertain herself by talking to herself and laughing whole day. Will only cry when she's hungry. Doesn't even cry when she poos, only after they smelt it. Haha



Faith Yeo Jing En 杨静蒽
Monday, November 11, 2013
Experiencing cramps on 17th night. Kept waking up from pain. Observed, ate instant noodles, back to sleep. Till 7am, called doctor and proceed to hospital after a nice long bath.

Admitted to hospital after satisfied mac breakfast for the last time till confinement ends.

Ran CTG for an hour in labour ward. Bu contractions were not too much, transferred to normal ward for observation since cervix was only 1-2cm opened. 
Watched tv, walked around, tried sneaking out of hospital but failed when gyne came to visit suddenly. 
Induced with a pill at 4pm. Labour pain started coming at 6pm.
Transferred back to labour ward at 7pm after clearing bowels..
Ran CTG again for the whole night, ups and downs. 4am on 19th, pain starting coming but cervix only 3cm opened. Deciding whether to get the leg injection, finally decided at 6am. 
Took effect at 6.30am, real labour pain comes. By 7am, "push" feeling came and checked, cervix fully opened.
Anxious nurses called gynae in immediately. We all thought will only be ready for delivery after 8am..
Tried controlling not to push before doctor comes in.
7.20am, gynae rushed in while dressing. And just right, that was when I couldn't control anymore.
Faith came out at 7.37am on 19 October aft few pushes.

Weighing at 3.08kg which gave me a shock since 1 week ago, she's only weighing at 2.5kg
Length 50cm
Head circumference too big for me, this extra stitches needed.

Cleaned and got pushed back to normal ward. 
Rested, and called for Faith to be sent to us. 

Visitors came in the noon.. Lucky we got a one bedded ward instead since the husband wanted to stay throughout and see his daughter anytime he wants. 

Discharged the next day since Faith is alright, and my stitches are already healing.

Thank god, the pain was endurable and really skipped using epidural.



We knew nothing about bathing babies, so attended the bathing lesson. Now, I caught the hang of it and she's enjoying baths. Will keep quiet knowing that she'll be comfortable after bath, and enjoys playing with water.








Tough week,
Monday, September 16, 2013
Been a tough week last week dealing with those issues.

Really tired of such things. It's been happening once in few months, when are these going to stop? Or will have more to come?

If time comes and things don't get better, it'll probably be best to leave things as it is.
Let them do whatever they want since there's always shameless people around.
Nothing you can do if they're determine to lie to you. 
Even with concrete proofs they can still deny.

One last warning, stop when it's too much before I get nasty & things get ugly. Make sure to create a scene. Since you got the cheek to do it, be prepared for people to gossip & point fingers at you.

Pandora to cheer myself up.




Hubby's 26th birthday,
Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Surprised him with a famous Amos cookie cake when clock stroke 12am on 20th.



Doctor's appointment at 9.30am.
Lawyer's firm to settle accident claim.
Funan for lunch then shop for his 60D cam with sis, g & mum.



Aquarium together.



Crystal jade for dinner @ Vivo aftermath.

Whole day's itinerary for his bday. Basically it's family day with my family coincidentally since we failed to go aquarium last Sunday.




Tuesday, August 06, 2013
Into 7th months of pregnancy today.
Time flies. Baby will be out in less than 2 months..

Officially shifted to our new office now.
Nothing much to be updated though.

Have been aiming for baby fairs to see what to buy for our girl lately. Awaiting for oct's biggest baby fair for last half of the year.



Genting 20-23 June,
Saturday, June 29, 2013
Decided on a trip since February.
Extended the trip to Sunday instead. && driving up this time.

Doc's appt at 9am for detailed 2nd trim scan. Confirmed to be a girl.

After must waiting, finally reached genting at 11pm. 5 hours late from waiting & losing way.

Drove out for lunch & strawberry farm.







Father's Day
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
Daddy Yeo commented about being bored and that I did not celebrate Father's Day for him.

So I suggested bringing him to time zone and Mac. But he says he'll do that to me too.. 

So, we went Dempsey hill for La fondue.
And now, he's a happy daddy after trying cheese fondue.



Baobei's first kick,
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Daddy Yeo experienced baby's first kick last night after rubbing on my tummy few times.
Feeling amazed, he started talking to bb. Throwing questions like "If you're a boy, kick me" "If you're a girl, kick me" "If you love daddy, kick me" "If you love mummy, kick me"

But our dao bb ignored him. So, disappointed him *Rubs tummy* "Ok baby's tired. Let's not disturb him. We'll continue tomorrow, good night bb" *Grins*. Lol

Then this morning, excited bb kicked me actively maybe to pay up for us being ignored last night. Or happy because i got the frog prince hello kitty. lol



Mummy on long trip,
Thursday, May 30, 2013
Mummy's on long company trip since last Tuesday. Will be back tomorrow like a finally.
And le husband keeps fiddling with the tv in living room. And the reception got worse..
Practically, he's been spending his 1 week fiddling with the wires every night after work.
Hoping for miracle to happen before mummy comes back and make noise for the mess he created. Lol

January BTO, we finally decided to give up since appointment will be in July.
May BTO & SBF out, shall take a look with hubby tonight and make decisions.

The very childish boy was disturbing me whenever i'm almost falling asleep. zzz Just the night before, i screamed at him for disturbing me again and again. Then yesterday, he did it again by sticking his face to mine and smile cheekily when i'm about to fall asleep.
Sometimes, don't know to get angry or be happy with a childish husband.

Our last group meet up like in 2011...



Last friday, we finally met up for dinner since Ht's wedding in Dec'12.
Next will be very soon since Ht's baby girl can't wait to see the world.


Hi, bff. Way back in 2009 when we had dinner together with f-RC & C-cb

With le girlfriends on our first & last trip to butter fact.
Back then, our favourites were Rebel, Phuture & Powerhouse.
Big no for Dbl O thou'.



Pretty upset that i missed something once so important to me, career advancement!
Headhunter got my contact through our Germany counterpart. But it's a pity they could only wait till December.
Guess it's family first. Le hubby was comforting me since Tuesday.
Nvm, there'll be another time when i'm done settling down next year.

Hello Kitty started today, le hubby said to have it for dinner but daddy already prepared dinner :(
Laters, baby. --- 50 shades, awaiting for CG's perspective.



Married life,
Friday, May 24, 2013
How does it feels like to be married?

1) Nothing different from when in a relationship, except our bondings with both side families as well as ourselves got better.

2) Now and then, I missed the excitement of wondering who'd I end up with, how my husband will be like, how will it feels like to be married.

3) First thing I wake up and last thing I goes to bed seeing the face of this person lying beside me whom I call my husband.

4) I missed being wooed. Missed excitement of being in a relationship. 

5) I still talk to my friends about my boyfriend sometimes when I talked too fast. And it just feels weird labeling him as "my husband".

6) He will assure me by reminding me that he's a married guy and wants to treasure what he has now.

Our marriage life is pretty much the same. Me waking up to prepare, then waking him up, he sent me to work & fetched me from work, then home for dinner, tv, get our baths, lie on bed for another round of tv before we fell asleep. 
The routine you'll never get sick of. Prefer this to cracking brains on where to go next. Simple is good.


Anyway, there's a nail wholesaler having sale at mvc for past few days. Pretty good deals, spent almost $200 solely on pedicure scrubs, foot mask, salt bath, hand creams & a few nail polishes.

Tried on hubby's foot first, and it works pretty well.
Saves me from nagging =B 


He really loves watching tv. Insisted to watch even when his eyes were half closed. Finally, he's asleep now at 2.30am
And surprisingly, I'm awake at this time & still awake after him.



Back to reality,
Thursday, May 16, 2013
Back to work aft 6 days of leave. 
Back to rushing reports & deadlines. Tons of emails waiting to be replied. Phone calls even during holiday. 

Need more breaks from hectic work.

Day 1 after wedding, swimming then dinner with his family. Spent time in the hotel room talking.

Day 2, returned gowns. Back to park car & headed off to vivo for iron man 3. Waiting 3 hours for movie just to get good seats. Had to say, gold class was good. Will never settle for lesser than gold class anymore. 

Just yesterday, le husband bought a new 42" smart tv with 3D. He said " see I so good. Buy tv for you so you can lie on bed to watch"
But seriously, is more for him. Just gave away my 32" tv last year since I've no use.



Post wedding,
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Can say its a success though many cock ups, time delay. Overall was great.
Too busy to entertain guests that night, thanks friends and families who attended. Especially colleagues who came early for solemnisation.
Sisters and brothers for the help that day.

Doesn't really feel like we're married. Everything feels the same, seeing each other everyday & all.

Still, there'll be ups and downs like in a relationship. But much worse since it's not about breakups now, instead divorce.



2 more days,
Friday, May 03, 2013
Decided to get him a last present from his girlfriend.

Grumbling about salted caramel crave but lazy him complained too far.
Passed him the present, feeling happy, brought me out for supper.
Waited for 1/2 hr as he was fiddling with his gift and complaining that it's moving and wants to wear it out.
Finally gave up so we can have our supper.






Counting down,
Monday, April 29, 2013
My colleague just reminded me that it's 6 more days to our wedding.
And I only realized that we've got quite a number of things not settled.
Gladly, most done yesterday.
His topmost important vow not completed, but his "I don't know how to do" doesn't save him this time round.

Sometimes, this guy can be a sweetheart, sometimes a total nightmare.
Just like today.
I even asked sarcastically if I should apologize for his mistake (to put myself out of agony) lol...

Wedding album turned out well. Extra dress for solemnization (y)

ROM for swearing in. Then home to nap and sunset grill for his level 5 buffalo wings. Level 5 buay tong, gatecrashing how???






So,
Thursday, April 11, 2013
We're done with our photoshoot & selecting of photos.
Next will be appointment at ROM, then actual day ❤

Must've been the stress of preparation for wedding. Felt so emotional, crying and crying for no reason. Glad le husband rushed back to comfort me, thou he was late.

Thank the past for a better future.








Indeed,
Sunday, February 24, 2013
21st feb, we decided to tie the knot.
Decided on a date, did some plannings, filter possible bridal shops & venues.

Managed to get something done despite being unwell due to UTI.
Thanks to le HTB for taking care of me.



Valentine's day
Thursday, February 21, 2013
So, yesterday was the first time I really did celebrate vday.
Ended work early, grocery shopping.
Then headed home to prepare for dinner.
Decided to eat home since everywhere were full and we only talked about it very last minute.

So, he kept his promise by making dinner & doing the dishes.

Bf came with a bouquet of fake roses with hello kitties.
Jokingly, I told him that he can actually give me the same one next year. Haha

Been awhile since the last bouquet of roses delivered on my bday.

/didn't realized post was not published on 15th thou..








2013,
Wednesday, February 13, 2013


Deleted many posts from 2006 onwards. Deleted many pictures on fb and lappy, like a finally after 1 year+ of struggle, to get rid of certain memories.

And for a biggest change, rcyr is not longer the center of my life, nor anyone who'll affect my mood, not anymore. Well, I had enough of your nonsense and tired of getting angry at you for the last 4 years.. You'll probably pop by to stalk this space, here's to you, you are damn childish & you will never grow up.

Meanwhile, this person i met, never felt so emotionally attached to anyone before, for sure I know this is not because of 'honeymoon period'. So many things that i like, yet cannot be described.

Back for work aft cny holiday, pretty much dragging my feet to work though.
And it suddenly strikes me that tomorrow will be v day =.=

So, I should head to town alone to get the present done. And that stupid boy seem happy and likes it.

Last month, we celebrated my bday at V5... Ended the party with a drunkard me. Zzz